Wednesday, May 4, 2011

trying to calm my mind

I have tried to find ways in which I would be able to overcome my jealousy, about Jim seeing Glennis and never telling me until after he has done this. He claims it is innocent as she needs some one to talk to and he is helping her with his sage advice. My anger comes from the fact that when he see's her it was 11:30 at night, in the afternoon, and a private phone call from his truck  this afternoon. My question is if it is so innocent why all the secretiveness, I have asked him to invite her down here where he can speak to her in our living room, I am more than willing to go into the bedroom to give her privacy. But no. What I want is not important in his eyes.
Now how do I deal with this I have heard and read several thoughts on the idea, most of them tell me to ignore his obsession and get over my jealousy, as it is causing  me to get upset over some thing that is not mine to deal with.
Well more home work for me , will get back on this if I find solution, My first thought is give him his walking papers

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