Merry Christmas

I am feeling a bit more settled, I was in a tailspin about Jim one minute I kept thinking I had made a mistake and wanted to try again, then I would remember what it really was like living with him and I would think I had made the right decision. Well on the 23 he phoned me and told me he has given a ring to an old flame , some one who he would seek out when I was giving him a rough time, I do not believe he was doing any thing but talking but she kept telling him I was no good for him and for him to leave, Well he is all hers and that is going to be the most toxic mix that I have ever witnessed .I can not see this doing him any good and I do not say that in glee, but rather concern as he is 70 and very easily upset and depressed. Both Rita (his wife) and I believe that it is going to be a disaster, and I feel sort of sad as he is blind  to what is going on, but that being said he blindly believes he can deal with it
I can only say "go and be happy in the life you have chosen" (Charles Dickens)